27th May 2010
Is it a lready ONE WEEK since you left us? Life is gradually returning to normalacy but sometimes when I allow myself to pause, the unbearable yearning, sudden lump that appears in my mouth that refuses to go away and the sudden flooding of eyes tell me that our farewell is real. Everywhere I look in the house only brings back memories that refuses to fade. Even shopping for grocery at NTUC can be such a pain as I pick the stuff and remember all the instructions you used to give regarding the selection. Time seems to creep by so slowly............Regrets, remorse, guilt seem to be crowding me all the time
Life is so lonely without you.
25th May 2010
Many Thanks to Wan Xiang who took these shots!
Many Thanks to Kai ting who took the following photos for us.
24th July 2010
My darling LG was accorded the highest honour -a military funeral as it is a fitting farewell for a hero - he has fought the battle of Lymphoma valiantly and though he has lost physically,LG conquered Death and is now in a better place.We who are left behind will continue to grieve but the incredile support given by the Navy, relatives, friends, church folks and my colleagues has indeed been very very comforting for our family!
I wake up now and wonder why the sun is still shining and everything is still exactly the same but the reality that hits me is you, my darling IS NO LONGER here.Your endearing smile and tender acts continue to drift into my non-seeing eyes. The act of cutting fruits which is what you often do is such an unbearable task as each slice of the knife seems to bring only greater pain that no morphine in this world can deaden. The mountainous pile of unironed clothes which you will always clear as you know I hate ironing only serves to remind me of your absence from my world.... I long to be reunited with you but I somehow know that my earthly duties is not finished yet...23rd May 2010
Lay Kuan, Wilson, Valerie and all family members would like to thank EVERYONE ( impossibly long to list)FOR the incredile support, generous donation and care given to us in our most trying moment.20th May 2010
LG, my darling you have left a GAPING hole in my life that I am at loss to fill. Though I am comforted that you will no longer suffer any more pain, but the pain is now with me. Time may heal but the pain of losing you will be there always. You are the sunshine of my life and now my whole universe has collapsed. What remains is all the goodness you have given me and the children..................... 
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